I have been a fan of CBS’s Survivor since the very beginning. Ever since Richard Hatch won the first season of the show, I have been hooked. The shear madness of 16 strangers being placed in a remote location for 39 days is just the most interesting social experiment that I think modern reality TV has given to us.
The interesting part is the each season, despite the new cast members and new locations, the show stays relatively the same. A group of people are forced to work with one another in order to survive in the wilderness, much like our everyday lives as marketers inside our organization.
There are leaders who emerge, some by authority and some by autonomy, and guide the tribe to success in challenges all day everyday. But how do you emerge as the leader and an even better question is that once you emerge how do you lead your tribe?
Having recently listened to the audio-book Tribal Leadership compliments of Zappos, I radically shifted the way in which I viewed leadership and the tactics associated with it. I will outline the three major stages that need to be accomplished in order to create a pure tribal bliss. I encourage you, if you haven’t done so already, to ready or listen to the book. The audio book is free, and will only take about 6 hours to complete. But here we go… How to lead a tribe:
What is Tribal Leadership?
I might first offer up what tribal leadership is, as to create a framework for this post. Tribal Leadership is a synergy between the leader and followers that places the tribe as the most supreme being. It is not about individual contributions but about the effort and success of the collective. Much like my Survivor example, the tribe governed by true tribal leadership will win challenges and immunity week after week. The true Tribal Leadership company will generate record profits and carry the torch of innovation. There are five stages of tribal leadership but I will concentrate only on stages three through five as that is a logical starting place for most.
It is important to keep in mind that in order to advance from one stage to the next, according to the book, that you must enter each stage before advancing.
Stage Three – All about ME
Most organizations are here. Stage three tribal leadership highlights and concentrates on the individual. It is the individual contributions of one that stand out. Now imagine if everyone on your team or in your company was always concerned with themselves. Awards to distinguish one person above all, shameless self promotion and a very siloed structure. Sound familiar? It is all about me. You can tell you are in a stage three tribe if people refer to themselves constantly and a lot of “I” language is used. “I thought it would be a good ideas if…” I was thinking that…” I know this is how it should be…”
However, all people must go through the “ME” stage in order to graduate into stage 4
Stage Four – All about WE
Moving from stage three to stage four is a big shift. This cannot be accomplished by just one person or one team. Moving from the ME mentality in stage three to the WE mentality of stage four requires a destination that everyone believes in. While this sounds simple, for some reason it’s not. Business partners are looking out what is best for them and their goals, agency partners are more concerned how their work is received and legal wants to reduce all the risk. However, we all work toward the same goal and that is to provide our customer with an outstanding experience. If we can really stress that, then and only then will the team be able to shift from stage three to stage four. The WE culture is hard, because we are not graded as a collective and even worse we are graded compared to one another. A true stage four tribe will have to always put the tribes noble cause first and merge together as one.
Stage Five – Greatness
Stage five is hard to obtain and may not work for all companies or tribes. Stage five goes beyond stage four from the we mentality to everything is just great. Not only is the team working and pulling together but everything else around you is just terrific. The noble cause is stage four, becomes even more noble. Positivity will not carry you to stage five, but a genuine belief in the future will. Getting others to rally at this stage is hard because companies have mechanisms to guard against this like: allotted time off, health plans and crummy work spaces. Stage five greatness will come to those who and and for those really wanting to embrace the greatness of the world.
Where do I go from here…
- Start at stage three. If you aren’t there yet then get there. Remember in order to advance to stage four you must have gone through stage three.
- Stage three hinges on the following: Me centric, promoting your ideas, sharing why your opinion is best and comparison to your piers.
- Stage four hinges on the following: We centric, the collectives vision and destination, the opinion of the noble cause, comparison to other tribes and a sense of flow.
- Stage five hinges on the following: Being a part of something that is bigger than yourself and bigger than the people around you.
- The easiest thing to do is stop saying “I” and “me” and start saying “us” and “we” this will help move you in the right direction.
There is no right and wrong way to get to these stages and it ultimately comes down to what the potential of your cause is. The biggest leap is from ME to WE so make that a priority to cultivate a winning “we” culture where the power of the tribe becomes the sole survivor.
*The concept of Tribal Leadership was devised by Dave Logan, John King and Halee Fischer-Wright and I am a just happy to have read the book.

My dad mentions to me that we have an induction burner on our stove. I think to myself, well that’s interesting…what does that mean? He goes on to explain that it is a flame that burns hotter and larger enabling a pot of water to boil faster.
that the more I strive to become an expert at the job I am given, that eventually all roads lead to the corner office.
So back to this kid and the job… he needs a name… we’ll call him Chad.
